Starting to enjoy motherhood

The first few months after we brought our baby home was insane, you stress, you are unsure and you are overwhelmed in every possible way. After that, you seem to kind of find your feet as a mother, but you are still unsure of yourself and your instincts.

Now, Paige is 10 months old, and I just feel more at ease, more confident about being a mother and with following my “gut”.

I also don’t seem to care so much what people think, and lets face it, most moms are not afraid to tell you their opinion of something they are doing! Usually it would upset me that someone would tell me that they would do it differently, now, I just say “oh okay” with a smile and move on. It’s liberating.

I feel like I am starting to come into my own, I get to enjoy every little giggle now without worrying about a milestone that hasn’t been reached yet, or the amount of wet nappies she has had for the day, I am just enjoying her and the time I get to spend with her.

If my baby does not want to sleep or stands in her cot forever without any hope of sleep, I get up, knowing that it is just a phase and she will get over it. Honestly I wish I had this mentality when she was a newborn, I would have enjoyed her more and not stress over everything, but as with everything in life, it was also a phase I needed to go through as a mother, to appreciate the moments I have now, and seeing her grow into a beautiful, smart little girl.

So blessed 🙏🏻

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2 thoughts on “Starting to enjoy motherhood

  1. My little girl just turned 10 months yesterday. I was literally saying these exact words to my husband yesterday. I have had those moments of this is our life and the way my husband and I choose to raise our daughter. There is no rule book or manual and no two babies, families, or situations are the same. I have even explained that to our respected mothers that what worked when raising us is not necessarily going to work on our daughter. I wished I had this revelation earlier in her life, so like you said I could have enjoyed it more. I am enjoying the heck out of it now, that is for sure.

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    1. So agree ! We can make ourselves crazy trying to be the picture of “perfect mother” we have in our heads ! Glad to hear someone can relate 🙏🏻

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