Long distance talk

Long distance talk
“Distance doesn’t separate people.Silence does”.                                                                                          Jeff Hood

This leads me to a Question,which I am unable to decide !

Long distance relationship or short distance relationship……which is better & why ?  (couples & Friends)

Share your thoughts.

Thank you .  Philosophy Through Photography

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31 thoughts on “Long distance talk

  1. I prefer long distance relationship because I naturally don’t want someone to be all over me just because of closeness in proximity

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    1. Hi,Maulome Padonu,thank you for your lovely response.I too feel the same But don’t you feel sometimes you miss the person?

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      1. LDR also has a disadvantage. Each partner are given the opportunity to cheat one another. Taken from my friend’s experience, when couple suddenly tries to live together after a long time long distance relationship, they get overwhelmed and shocked of each others’ behavior and then it becomes awkward. I think it should be balanced. Well, this is for couples. Nice post by the way.

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      2. Perfect.The relationship should be balanced

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  2. Yeah… I get to miss him. Then, we will plan to hook up.

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  3. I guess it is all depends on what type of relationship you want. Is it intimate or platonic, both can work out if its a commitment you are willing to take.

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    1. Yes Irrespective of the type of the relationship, commitment is important.

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      1. I agree, commitment is important.

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  4. I should have added in my comment above that I am comfortable with long distant.

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  5. Thank you Allysnotebook.
    I feel long distance relationship is beautiful especially if the friends don’t know each other by face and meet regularly by chatting( as in social media chat),and they are not interested in video chats.
    It is a different matter in case of couples/partners.

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  6. I feel long distance relationship is better and stress free because longing and caring for love would be preserved whereas in short distance relationship the other person would not know the value of having us since we are in contact and get to interact with the person more frequently…..so i would like to share the phrase which i came across recently
    “Do maintain distance with the relationships as we tend to maintain distance with the vehicles in traffic as to avoid an accident with someone”
    But practically we cannot maintain long distance relationships with everyone in our life so better understanding would help even in coping up with short distance relationships as well…

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    1. Thank you Iyarkaiyin Isai,you beautifully explained and solved the puzzle.The quote is a bit scarring but apt for this situation.
      I feel long distance relationship is beautiful…..all the more if the two people don’t know each other before they become friends via online chat and continue the long distant relationships.

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      1. My pleasure indeed😃😃yass long distance relationship is beautiful and worth having for a blissful feel…
        Have a good day friend !

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  7. Long distance is great for freedom. It would be great to have that in a relationship with someone close by. Yet sometimes it gets too entangled. Still working through it. It takes a lot of trust to continue long term depending on how serious and intimate it gets.

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    1. Very true.I feel long distant relationship is better any day .Yes trust is the single most important thing.Hello Jordy thank you so much for stopping by.

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      1. My pleasure, good question!

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  8. Both have their pros and cons. Clingyness is more in short distance talks whereas lack of communication exists more in long distance and also interest in the other person fizzles out most often in long distance talks. But still I prefer long distance.

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    1. Fun should be the important component I believe in.Thank you Savitha.

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  9. They both have benefits but long distance can definitely work if you both make the effort to make it work.

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    1. True ,attempt at continuous communication is important

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  10. What may be good or bad for me may not be good or bad for someone else… 🙂 what I think is immaterial, it all depends on those involved and what kind of relationship they have… 🙂

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  11. So many people in the comments favouring long distance, I think it requires a lot more effort to make LDR work, and I’m not sure how many are willing to put that extra effort. Nowadays.

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    1. Thank you Pallavi Gupta,I agree,looks now a days no body has time to sustain it and also people can change over the time due to other circumstances.

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    1. Hai Lorraineanne sure to get back to you.Thank you for stopping by

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  13. It would depend on the nature of the relationship, and the people involved.

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  14. Yes Kalliope.I think People involved is more important.

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  15. yes long distance is better. because longing and caring for love would be preserved whereas in short distance relationship the other person would not know the value of having us since we are in contact and get to interact with the person more frequently…so i fell long distance is better then any other relationship

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