Which face you will wear to day ?

This is 3 minute read, and I request you to give your frank opinion (without inhibition),if you can.

“Everyone is a moon, and has a dark side which he never shows to anybody.” ― Mark Twain

I am not talking of the personality disorder which we come across in the Medical World…..I am talking about the normal,perfect down to earth gentlemen and gentlewomen, who invariably have two faces,sometimes many faces ( multifaceted indeed! )

Can you judge a person by the behavior ?

“Everyone  has two faces but often we see only one side of them,                           so never judge anyone by their looks,because ,truth might surprise you” !    ‘unknown’

Have you any time seriously gazed your soul ?

I think we are all not just actors but great actors.Some examples,

1.You agree with me that wives hide (secrets) things from husbands, and husbands hide things from wives,but each will be talking to other sweetly and kindly.

2.All Men talk differently when they are with wives,and when the wives are not around.( men there… ..you know what I mean )

3. We preach our kids,but practice quite opposite.

4.Young boys and girls as lovers,constantly lie to each other which suits the situation.

5.We shout at our children and wives for no fault of theirs,but show sweet face to the boss,in spite of getting abused.

6.Married men ,when they come across a single woman, try,to attract her attention,but when wives are with them…it is a different behavior !

7.Our offline behavior is in contrast to our online behavior.

8. You may be a beggar in real life ,but on social media you flaunt all your richness from nowhere !

9. You can see ,Professional child kidnapper/killer acts as a dedicated father to his kids.

I can go on and on…..

We all wear masks.

And we are experts in wearing different masks, depending on the situation.

Let us be frank.And that is the way of life ! And we have to live that life if we want to survive in this wretched world.

And the worst part,you know…..even with God we play our duality !

“There’s a duality of a guy calling on God: ‘Where are you when I need you’ and the,at the same time .’God helps those who helps themselves.’…I think that contradiction does exist in all of us ,those of faith and those who profess to have no faith.  ‘JoeCornahan’

Now that we realized that all of us have two faces( dual personalities)….now it becomes even more scary.

“It’s not about who’s real to your face,

It’s about who’s real behind your back”   unknown

So be busy checking your back frequently !

And wishing and praying that, let 2019 bring just the single and original face of ours all the time !

Thank you .

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17 thoughts on “Which face you will wear to day ?

  1. Easily. This is very true. And it can even be broken down further, as we moderate our own behaviour based on the behaviour of others that they present to us, but also in how we interpret their behaviour.

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    1. Agree.But I don’t understand one particular behaviour of us.Why can’t humans be atleast straightforward in situations where it is required ?.Why they do….what is known as beating around bush.
      Thanks , Kalliope , appreciate taking your time
      Happy new year

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      1. Everyone beats around the bush because we are taught to be civil and polite and to watch our words lest we offend or hurt another with them. However this just breeds deceit and resentment as people don’t know what to believe anymore. People confuse ‘tact and diplomacy’ with ‘sugar coating and misleading’.
        I find it better to be direct and sharp, and withstand the immediate backlash. It is precision, accuracy, trust and love that allow for open and honest communication even when the truth might hurt.
        Happy new year to you too. And I am sorry, I don’t know your name. 😦 xoxoxo

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      2. Thanks for the great advice,I am humbled.
        You can call me Sridhar,if the name is too long or difficult to remember you can shorten it whichever way you are comfortable.Thanks again.

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      3. Sridhar, I will endeavour to remember that. Thanks again Sridhar! 🙂 Happy new year and all the blessings to you and your family 🙂 xoxx

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      4. Thank you Kalliope.Great new year ahead and wish and pray let all good things happen to you all throughout.

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  2. I think you a right to a degree. It will depend on if you are honest with yourself as a person. I find that as I get older I tend to be myself more and more. I wear a mask less and less because I just don’t need the hassle. If you don’t like me for who I am then you don’t need to associate with me.
    Not being two faced is one of the things that has kept my marriage of almost 30 years going. I know there are a lot of two faced or duel personalities out there. On occasion I am one if for no other reason I don’t really want to share who I really am with that person or persons. They don’t need to know me or don’t care if they do or not.
    Sorry if this is a bit all over. I’m not through my first cup of coffee yet. Thank you for posting this and asking. With the new year upon us it is something we should think about.

    Happy New Year to you and yours!

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    1. Thank you so much 1972italy,I am really honored by your perfect explanation,which I think is the perfect answer for the question I raised .You have answered every aspect of dual personalities.Sorrry to have taken your time.wishing you all a happy and wonderful new year.

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      1. No! Please don’t apologize! I am grateful you have brought it up. This is something that everyone needs to think about. I am flattered that you consider my comment perfect. It is just my two cents.
        Keep up the wonderful work on your blog!❤️

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  3. I only have one face, it is what it is… 🙂

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  4. There is much truth in this. Your text initions some reflection on one’s own behavior.

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  5. Happy new year dear.<3

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  6. This post is very real. I too beleive everyone has two sides. And very rarely people show their worst side. If they do I think those people are honest and real than the sweet talkers.

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    1. Thank you Saritha.As you said it is rare, if at all anybody willing to show their dark side.

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  7. I am pondering each of these points, on a daily basis, my goal being to rein in my worst side and aim towards moving towards the light. My wife is gone now, and though I was faithful to her, my task since her passing has been to not get falsely involved with women to whom I am attracted. I am always concerned with being fair to them and not with indulging myself.

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    1. Oh !righteousbruin9, you are amazing ! You are frank and you are gifted with Will power.
      I am sorry for your loss and you agree with me that we have to bear the loss,since it’s part of Almighty’s way of dealing things.Thanks again for taking time .

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