Menstruation

We are living in a country where obscenity and illicit language is used in public; and speaking about a biological process is unacceptable. Yes, I’m talking about Menstruation.

And if you want to stop reading this right here, you can. I just wrote about a natural phenomenon and I have every right to do so.

You might be wondering where I got the guts to speak so blatantly about something I was supposed to whisper about. It all comes from my mom. My mom was this rebellious woman who went to the temple and participated in festival celebrations despite being on periods. She made sure she taught me the same. During the days when a woman, on her periods, was considered untouchable, mom did everything from extreme sports to kitchen chores. She insisted on me doing likewise. I too had my share of brainwash from the narrow-minded people who brought ‘culture’ into this. “When you are on your period…you don’t go here…you don’t go there…” the blabber goes on. When you ask why, they brush it off saying this is what their elders have taught them. I wonder how they wish to remain unvarying, when everything else is changing drastically. Those were the times when people knew nothing about science. Those were the times when every absurd thing was given the name of religion and believed by the masses. But if you wish to continue the same taboos and myths about periods even today, you need to buy a brain at the earliest.

Another thing she passed on to me was to talk about Menstruation unabashedly. There is no shame in men knowing about menstruation. It is not too easy to ignore PMS, cramps and mood swings.When it actually takes a toll on you, ask for help from anyone who can. Put aside talking to men. Even in a room full of women, they hesitate to talk about Menstruation. I again wonder what is so furtive in this. I mean, every girl of adolescence gets her periods and every human being knows this. Then what the hell are you even hiding? God alone knows.

“But,how do we tell boys about this?” “With your mouth, okay?”

Growing up, I saw my aunts and their friend circle using code words and sign language to speak about periods. Believe me that’s more hilarious than any comedy show. Someone please reason me why I should call it ‘that time of the month’ ,’not doing well’, ‘girls problem’ rather than just saying ‘I am on my period’. The way we speak of it, as if it was a crime or a downcast thing would terrify a girl who is having her first or second periods of life. She would feel that these five days of the month are a humiliation. That is the worst thing, ever. I pity those girls, who, when they had their first period, were told about the restrictions and not about the biological process.

I know many girls who would list you out all the curtailments of those five days and are unaware of why we get our periods.

Shall I tell you some more hilarious experience? I’ve had this, when I went to buy sanitary napkins. I just told the shopkeeper that I wanted sanitary napkins and the men around gave me looks of shock and wonder. The shopkeeper took them out and wrapped it in almost hundred newspapers and hid it in a black cover, before he finally gave me it. I wonder if drug dealers and gun smugglers also hide the illegal material in the same way.

One fine day, I really lost my cool and insisted on the shopkeeper giving it to me in a normal, white cover. Like he would give any other things I purchased. Because sanitary napkins are like any other things I purchase.

I think it is important for every girl to understand the reality of Menstruation properly. The understanding they get at home, as to what they should touch and what they shouldn’t, where they can go and where they cannot, is actually imprisoning them. They do not need to publicize this but they should be able to speak about this when required. They must grow up to be ladies with a voice of their own.
It is the female uterus that lies at the apex of the creation of every life form. So,when it bleeds once in a month, don’t take it as a taboo. Express yourself and take pride in being feminine.

Prakarsha. @prak_17

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13 thoughts on “Menstruation

  1. You hit the nail on its head. This is an irritable issue present in most cultures as well as in mine too. Nothing wrong with talking about a biological process that inwardly everyone knows about, what’s the use in hiding behind our hands and whispering about it. Great article this is. ♥️♥️

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    1. Thanks a lot lady💙💙glad to hear from you 💟💟💟

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    1. Thanks 💙

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  2. Krishna_Revanth Aug 19, 2018 — 20:59

    Thats just unbelievable my girl.. slipper shot for many.. eye opener for many.. that writing reflects the warfare u had inside ur head.. beautifully written.. proud of u.. i said u many times. Saying it again.. 💪

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    1. Annayya thank you💛💛💛

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      1. Krishna_Revanth Aug 19, 2018 — 21:51

        Peekav le whstapp loki raaa. 😉

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  3. missdorothywrites Aug 22, 2018 — 08:34

    Wonderful article dear

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    1. Thanks 💞

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  4. A wonderful piece and I had to laugh when you talked about the older ladies mouthing words as though it is unmentionable, well done 🙏🙏

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  5. Great piece prakarsha

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